Friday, January 28, 2011

The Guru of Chai by the Indian Ink Theatre

Just went for a play yesterday night with Ms W......been waiting for this theatre group from NZ to return after watching their play - The Pickle King in 2007!!!! It was excellent then.
So when I heard that they were returning again with a new play , entitled The Guru of Chai - I called Ms W and went to buy the tickets!!!



The synopsis:

Enlightenment is at hand
Once every millennia there comes a teacher who awakens us all to the power of the divine. But if you can’t wait that long, book an audience with the Guru of Chai! A spiritual leader who will sell you a cup of tea, charm you with his infectious smile, and take away all that is wrong with your life. Enlightenment is at hand.

A poor chaiwallah’s (tea seller) life is changed forever when a young girl is abandoned at a busy railway station and brings the place to a standstill with the beauty of her singing. An honest young policeman falls hopelessly in love but is rejected in favour of a disreputable poet. The contradictions of modern India with its iphones and ancient gods form the backdrop to this story about the dangers of keeping your soul locked in a cage.


Award winning actor Jacob Rajan combines with musician David Ward to bring this intimate epic to life . Outrageously funny and heartbreakingly beautiful, the “Guru's magical elements all add up to a very captivating, moving piece of theatre." Kate Ward Smythe, Theatreview

"The Guru of Chai showcases Jacob at his very best and reinforces him as one of NZ's most hard working, deserving, disciplined and gifted theatre artists--Kate Ward Smythe, Theatreview

I loved it!! Jacob Ryan is so super hilariously funny and talented at the same time...its like a guy having a monologue but playing multiple roles at the same time....and the fact that they use the concept of 'serious laugh' , using laughter to open the audience to deeper themes, is pretty unique. This company blends western theatrical traditions with eastern flavours and has been critically acclaimed for its use of live music, heightened theatricality, humour, pathos and great storytelling.

It was well worth the money and effort!!! Would totally recommend this play to everyone I know and I would say, please support this theatrical company for they are worthy of praise!!!!

Check out their website: www.indianink.co.nz

End of posting dinner at La Salsa

It's my last week at my current hospital....so to celebrate my parting with my friends/ colleagues at this memorable place, we decided to have dinner on a Wednesday night together....after debating and researching, Mr X decided to go to Dempsey , since Mr RL and Ms T claimed that they haven't been there before!!!!!
I suggested a couple of places, but Mr X wanted to go to Hacienda, which didn't sound fantastic.....but we agreed to go anyway......and despite the rain, we were pleasantly surprised to know that our intern was the only person with a car......and hence, we had a free ride there!!!!
We had quite a difficult time finding Hacienda, but it was disappointingly lousy - in terms of location and interior. So we settled for La Salsa instead......



It was rather quiet as we arrived pretty early at about 6pm that day...since we finished our work pretty much on time and there weren't any very sick patients around...the interior was warm.....and very 'spanish' looking, although from my understanding that La Salsa was a Mexican joint.....was hoping to hear the live band, but they only performed on the weekend.


Love the lamps!!!!


The interior

We had a great time catching up and talking rubbish the whole night....we laughed at Ms T who has never drank a margharita whilst we poked Mr RL at how much alcohol he could drink!!!!! It was just ironic.....and the conversation had to be steered many times away from work/ medicine/ hospital/ patients/ colleagues and bosses.....haha..that's what happens when all medics get together for dinner!!!!

So our food arrived....


Fajitas



Cheesy nachos

Din have a camera to take photos....so have to depend on Ms T to post those photos up on FB!!!!

It was rather interesting that our conversation turned towards religions, faith, etc...we discovered that Mr RL was initially a free thinker - then catholic- then atheist - and now currently an agnostic!!! Whilst Mr X freely admitted that he is an atheist ( yeah, after his little spill on space-time-continuum stuff, I think he's more agnostic than atheist though)......and the whole issue of faith and religion and all....we also discovered that our intern was a Pes E in army ( for thos uninitiated, all Singapore boys go to serve in their army and the grades Pes A - E is dependent on their physicial fitness)........so it was rather strange that our seemingly 'hunky' intern was a Pes E! And then we discovered that he has an endocrinological problem that required regular hormonal injections , and that is why he is a Pes E. So, we did discover more about each other that night!!!! ;)

Am seriously gonna miss this bunch of people.....anyways, we can always catch up over dinner again, I guess?!? Miss you peeps loads already!!!!!

Monday, January 24, 2011

A lil heavy hearted....to say goodbye.....

Just got news that my last day at my current hospital will be this coming Sunday, yes, 30th Jan 2011....and I happen to be on call that day... sigh...how sad!!!!
Whilst the change of environment is welcomed....some how deep in my heart I feel an acute sense of loss.....I love working with my current boss - he inspires me to be a better doctor/ clinician.....and he is also very funny.......plus, some of the colleagues here will be definitely sorely missed when I leave this place......the power of close proximity at work.......

Today, we went out for coffee again - Mr X, Miss T and myself....since we were all in the same team for the last few weeks....it was kind of like a winding down outing, in preparation for me leaving this place.......it was bittersweet to say the least...planning for my last dinner with them before I leave wasn't an easy thing....yes, we joked about it and laughed about it...but I think in my own heart, there's a very heavy sense of loss.....plus, Mr X has indeed became a very good friend in a very short period of time......our 'brunch' on Sunday ( post night)...became a 'witnessing' session for me...and for him to understand how, why and when I became a Christian......haha...ironic right?!?

Anyway, I found out a lot more about him than I bargained for......how his dad is a famous nuclear physicist....and how his parents and sisters lived in Germany before his dad decided to go back to their own home country.....and he fought with his dad over ideals and the things in life...and how he has a heart for the underprivileged....Amazing! I in turn , bared my soul to him about my mission work....about my current work and what I hope to do in the future......I even told him heaps about myself and my family!!!! Why? I dunno...mebbe coz I feel comfortable with him....even safe at times.......its weird....have never let anyone this close before!!! Its really scary.....

The biggest plus points is that he makes me laugh!!!! On Friday, I had to dash off to catch up with Miss W over dinner....hence Mr X and I did not end up sharing a cab as we usually do ......and he sped off...only to send me a text 10 mins later saying : 'hey...sorry I forgot to offer you to take the cab before me'....
I replid: ' Haha. It's OK lar. Do I look like I take these small things into heart?!!? See ya cm.
He said: 'Sometimes I am so lost that I forget chivalry. Hahaha....'

I was rather tickled by that....no guy has ever confessed re: his own lack of chivalry ( do they even know what that word means?!?)...and here this guy is apologising for that! I was very amused.....and I am beginning to like him more and more........

Up to today at least.....realised that I am not the only person with whom he goes out with......during 'tea' today, he mentioned re: Miss T and him going for breakfast last weekend at the place opposite out work place...I was like...hmm....so they went out together too....so mebbe he doesn't mean anything....mebbe we are just good friends, right?!? On one hand I was relieved coz it took the pressure off hanging out with him...on the other hand I was slightly disappointed that he wasn't interested in me?!?

I dunno...I guess when I prayed that God you will take those feelings away if he isn't the one.....I really din wanna hear what You said.....and now You have to shove the truth in my face.....serves me right for getting carried away!!!!! Thank you for shaking me up and letting me realise the truth...that I was dreaming and not walking in the light........

Maybe this is for the best ....for my best.....

But I must say that the brunch at Il Lido @ Sentosa Cove was excellent......and it was very romantic.....but unfortunately, not with a guy who absolutely adores me!!! Sheesh....so anyhow, just wanted to post a few pics here for posterity sake....so that I will never forget that day.....






Garlic bread in a funky bowl




Entrees



Entrees



Lasagna with wagyu beef cheek and porcini and truffle mushrooms


Duck confit with pearl onion and orange sauce


Hand made penne



Cod fish done to perfection, in a bean sauce...best dish that day!


Dessert platter - warm chocolate cake with vanilla ice-cream, coffee cream brulee, pannacotta and a lil petite dessert thingy ( still haven't figured out its name!)....

Yummilicious!!!!

Will definitely miss Mr X's kingdom ( Miss T and I have dubbed our current work place as Mr X's kingdom since he works so hard for it and orders us ( minions) around!!!! haha...and of course Miss T is his deputy and I am just a free agent........yes, we are all a bit delirious......in need for a normal life apart from work!!!!!

But it is exactly this kind of nonsense that I will miss most when I leave! Adios amigos!

Friday, January 21, 2011

What an inspiration!!!!

Wasted Years?
After half a century, we learned my family's work bore fruit in Burma's Golden Triangle
by Robert H. Buker


As medical missionaries who'd spent years in some of the most troubled areas of the world, my mother and father were, in my estimation, true heroes. Both were "always abounding in the work of the Lord," and lived well into their 90s. Mother died in 1997 at age 97, and Father died three years earlier. Their gravestone in Turner Village, Maine, where my mother's parents lived, proclaims them "Servants of God."

However, in the last years of her life, my mother spoke despairingly of the family's first missionary assignment in Burma. Often, as we ended discussions about those pioneering days, she would say, "There is nothing left of our work in Burma. It was wasted effort, wasted years, all in vain." This surprised and troubled me, especially in light of Scripture, which gives us confidence that our work for the Lord is not in vain (1 Cor. 15:58).

Blazing a trail in Burma
Our time in Burma began in 1926, two years before my birth. That year my doctor-father, Richard S. Buker, Sr., took my mother, Minola, a nurse, and my older brother, Richard, Jr., to the border area of China and Burma.

A recent graduate of Harvard Medical School, my father had completed an internship at Walter Reed Army General Hospital before he moved the family overseas.

After taking a train to just north of Mandalay in Burma, the family traveled two weeks (300 miles) by pony through jungles, over mountains, and across the dangerous Salween River to a mission station in Yunan Province, China. They stayed there about 18 months and then recrossed the border to the Shan States of Burma, where they worked, along with my father's twin brother Ray and his wife Dorothy (both now deceased), until 1940 when World War II closed the area.

While in Burma, the family worked with the Shan, Lahu, and Wa tribes, as well as with lepers. Destitute, hurting, and unwanted (no village would allow them to live anywhere near), the first leprosy patients who came to my parents for long-term treatment ended up living under our stilt-supported house.

My father had no budget or money to undertake such an enormous burden—his salary was approximately $25 a week—but the family could not turn these people away. The patients were fed out of our rice bin. Years later, Father would often remind us that though the leprosy work grew to more than 1,000 patients, "the rice bin never went empty."

The lost years
A few years after World War II, Burma essentially closed itself to missionary work. Nevertheless, Father and Mother returned to southeast Asia in 1949 to work among leprosy patients in Chiang Mai, Thailand, with outreach into Vietnam and Laos. They left in 1955, but returned again to work in Khon Kaen, Thailand, from 1964 to 1967.

They kept up with news from Burma as much as they could, but the reports were never good. During the war, under Japanese occupation, many in the Shan and Lahu churches had renounced their faith.


The situation further deteriorated when the Japanese left, and opium warlords, rebel armies, and thugs took over the countryside of northeastern Burma between the Salween and Mekong Rivers. This area, where my parents had worked, became known as the "Golden Triangle," source of 60 percent of the world's illegal opium and heroin trade. Only in 1997 did rebels sign peace treaties with the Myanmar (Burma) government.

With the signing of these treaties, the Myanmar (Burma) government finally opened the Golden Triangle to outsiders, 57 years after my family left. In November 1997, just months after Mother's death, 15 family members—including my wife Ethel, my two brothers and their wives, two of their daughters, my son and his wife, and Uncle Ray's son and his wife, and their daughter—and five friends made a "roots" trip to the Shan States. There, we found our parents' work had produced results they could never have imagined.

What we found
First, we stopped in Taunggyi, the hill city capital of the Shan States. After being flattened by Japanese bombing, the school for missionary children had been rebuilt and was now the Shan Theological Seminary, thriving and active.

Then we traveled to Keng Tung, unofficial capital of the Golden Triangle. The morning after we arrived, some of us walked up to the old mission compound and hospital. We were drawn to a choir signing "He Leadeth Me" in a language we didn't recognize. We entered the open-air building to sit and listen.

I am not an emotional person and have cried only once or twice in my adult life, but the tears rolled down my face as I realized it was an Akha choir practicing. The Akha were an unreached tribe before World War II, but since that time have been evangelized by the Shan and Lahu churches, without any foreign mission presence.

Also in Keng Tung, we met a Shan pastor who'd learned his first Bible lessons and catechism from Uncle Ray; he walked two days from his village just to see us. His church today has more than 1,000 members, one of 70 Shan churches.

On Sunday we visited the little nearby village of Kung Na, which had about 25 bamboo-and-thatch houses in 1940 but now boasted more than 250 well-built wood homes.

More significantly, a large brick-and-mortar church had been built and was packed out for Sunday services. They had a lively Sunday school program, and two choirs filled the front of the church. This had been my first church home, where I had been baptized in a nearby river. What an emotional experience this was for me to return 57 years later!

Many of the church leaders remembered my parents and my uncle's family. One of these was Ruta. I remembered her as a starving, nearly dead infant that my mother took in and eventually found a home for. She was now a strong pillar of the Kung Na congregation and with the women's fellowship committee put on a big rice and curry meal for us after church.

Late-blooming seeds
Also on our trip we found the Lahu church strong and growing. An active seminary was sending out church leaders to their own people as well as other tribes, like the Wa, former headhunters.

What about the church among the leprosy patients? This church, spurned by the non-lepers and with virtually no trained leadership, remained strong during the Japanese occupation. The number of new leprosy cases in the Golden Triangle has decreased significantly thanks to the health programs started by my father. When we visited the main colony in the area, only 11 patients were under treatment.

Sadly, 176 orphans, victims of a new scourge, are living in the colony now. Young women from the hill country are recruited across the border as sex workers in Chiang Mai and Bangkok, Thailand. They return with aids and children. Over 40 people a month are dying from aids in Keng Tung. The government has no capability or plan to deal with the epidemic. There is still hope. We met a Burmese doctor in Keng Tung working for World Vision, a Christian relief agency, who was helping the local government develop a plan of action.

Mother and Father never knew the rest of their story, but now in glory they do. And their children and grandchildren have seen it with their own eyes to tell others. A strong, growing, indigenous church—self-supporting, self-educating, and evangelizing, even under difficult circumstances—has blossomed from seed planted long ago.

By God's blessing, the work in the Golden Triangle was not in vain.

A Christian Reader original article.

Copyright © 2001 by the author or Christianity Today International/Today's Christian magazine (formerly Christian Reader).

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Grace AOG Year 2011 Declaration

We are a fellowship!

We declare that we are the most privileged of all people!
We have fellowship with God, and that fellowship affects all
our other relationships.

As sinners saved by grace we serve with an attitude of gratitude.
As saints we are set apart to represent Christ as His ambassadors.
As pilgrims we live and long for the heavenly city.
Everything on earth is temporary; success, riches, trials, failures.
As a pilgrim I am free to enjoy God through all this!

As a family we are interdependent. We have many brothers and sisters.
We are one body. We must minister to one another.

We are part of the fellowship of His suffering.
We rejoice with those who rejoice. We weep with those who weep.
We know Christ will redeem our suffering for His divine purpose!

As visionaries we are heavenly minded.
By seeing God's eternal puprose, we rise above our problems and seek to bless others.

We commit to seeing the kingdom of God advanced.
We commit to letting God change us, so we can best touch this generation.
We commit to pray for Grace Assembly regularly, so that she will fulfil her destiny.
We commit to fighting the real enemy- satan, and to protect one another from his tactics.
We ask God to cleanse us of a wrong spirit, gossip, or divisiveness.
We ask God to make us ministers to one another in the power of the Spirit,

We declare: we shall positively, unitedly and aggressively face every future challenge.

To God be all the glory!!!

Amen indeed!!!

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Paper Sorting!!!

Sigh...it's 11pm already and I am just almost done with sorting out the papers.....papers? what papers? all those ward lists that I have accumulated for the last 2 years!!! It's a mountainful....and the worst part is having to go through all that and just pick a handful of patients to record in my logbook......what a waste of time!
Do these administrative people think that we only see so few patients? We just don't have time to record all of them down!!! We are busy working....like 'duh'!!!! ( in a typical Homer Simpson fashion).....
Anyway, I am glad that I managed to fill up most blanks....now, I just have to get the signatures on all those papers!!! Sheeshh....I really think its a great big wast of time!!!!
Oh, and getting back to the topic of the last 2 posts.....I was glad to speak to a dear friend and sister in Christ, EM, and told her the lastest that's been happening....and she was like - WTH!!! Are you even thinking of going out with a non Christian?!? Don't you even think about it! Are you mad?!? Put a wall around your heart! I know that she is right..and I just need someone to just smack me in the face and shake me up to reality....I told her that I know all that...but at the age past 30 and still single....any dating options seems pretty attractive, if you know what I mean....besides, does going out for lunch/ dinner with a colleague count as dating? It's just having a meal with a person that I get along with at work, right? Ok, mebbe I'm just kidding myself! But I know what she means....and I also know that I don't wanna sound rude and just decline to go out with people! ( just because they are non Christians?!?).....mebbe its the best evangelistic tool I may ever have!
Anyway, I got her to promise that she will pray for me....and I did mention to her how I find others dishing out all these well meaning advice rather hypocritical coz these people are all attached/ married...I hope she got the drift.....but I do appreciate her concern.....
And then the conversation degenerated to me telling her about my Grave's disease and she telling me that she had pulmonary TB ( from all the stress of her pHD year!)....sheesh...we are all getting old and creaky already!
It was just a great time of catching up over MSN.......and I'm glad that she took the time to chat........So Lord, you know that I need Your hedge around my heart, mind and soul...please guard it for I know that it is my wellspring of life! Amen!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Thank God for friends!

Today was a rather busy day at work...yes, on a Saturday!!! Was rather upset that the rest of my colleagues decided to take the day off and let me do the ward rounds alone, with an intern that just started work and was really inefficient and non functional.
Anyway, was hoping that Mr X would surprise me at work and come help with the rounds.....and when I saw him at the meeting room , I was relieved to say the least.....when your ward list runs into 18 patients with only 1 registrar, 1 medical officer and 1 intern, its really quite tough...not too mention we had a few sick patients who needed urgent things to be done ( including a patient who required a chest drain inserted on a Saturday morning!!!)
So yeah, I was truly truly grateful for him! What would I do without such a good friend and colleague!!!! Was running around like a mad ding dong trying to see all my cases...clerk the new cases that came in periodically , discharge patients and supervise the intern all at once!!! Madness!!!
So at 2pm when finally most things were done....we decided to go and grab lunch together.... I was like uh -oh.....I promised God that I would not go out alone with this guy....but I was so grateful for his help that I agreed anyway....sigh.....since he was so insistent, we went to Chilis at Tanglin Mall.....and spent 2 hours having lunch!! I was rather happy that he wanted to order a triple play since it's one of my favourite dish at Chilis!!!! He looked rather surprised at how happy I was when he suggested ordering that! ;O) so we ended up chatting again, mainly about work...with a few awkward silences here and there...but since I had to rush off to church and he had to go back to work on call, we left about quarter to 5pm!!!!!!!
So what's the conclusion? I still have no idea! I only know that I am grateful for his friendship and kindness at work....and that he spurs me on to be a better doctor than I already am.......

Thursday, January 6, 2011

A New Year......means New Opportunities?!?

Its been an interesting few days into the new year........
For one , I've made 7 new year resolutions that I hope I can achieve by the end of the year.....
For another, I've made it 4 days into the new year without any contact with Mr. X....which in my opinion, is a good thing coz I see him at work 24/7...excluding being on call together!!!!
Well, I was rather surprised when one of my bossess invited me to his house for dinner on the 1st day of 2011.....and he tried to do it rather discreetly....but he also invited the acute medicine team registrars as well.....I was a 'dungu' because I did not realise that I was the only person invited apart from the registrars! And then it was only much later that I realised that not everyone was invited......I think because I was so dense at that, he ended up having to invite Mr X as well, and I could sense a relief over him when Mr X said that he could not attend coz his family was in town.......thought that something fishy was going on...but din entertain that thought too much!
So when 1st Jan arrived, I decided to go for the dinner with another registrar, Mdm T and her daughter. The other 2 registrars could not make it. So we went together....and when we arrived, some medical students were already there. I saw another guy, lets call him Mr Y, whom I have not met before, and he was introduced as a respiratory registrar in another hospital. I was like, okay.....strange that my boss would have invited someone from another hospital, but I did not think too much about it!
However, I was rather uncomfortable that this Mr Y was sitting very close to me after dinner...we chatted briefly over dinner...then I went to sit on the steps to watch the kids play...and he came and set next to me...but not talking much! After that, when I moved to the sofa, he sat next to me as well!!! He was sitting rather too close for my personal space....but I did not want to sound rude and step away...so I just pretended that I din notice it!
When we got up to leave about 9pm....he got up and came as well! He even hitched a ride from one of my consultants car, although he never met this guy before!!! Even stranger.....
I was thinking about it the entire night....and decided that my boss was trying to matchmake me with this guy....but it was really just my conjecture at this point.....until, Monday arrived.....and Mdm T came by the ward and said, Can I ask you a direct question?....the exchange went as follows:

Mdm T: Can I ask you a direct question?
Me : Huh? What do you mean?
Mdm T: *Giggles* Oh, Mr N ( our boss) wanted me to ask you in a roundabout way, about
what you thought of Mr Y at the dinner yesterday?!?
Me : Huh?
Mdm T: Okaylah, I be frank, Mr N is trying to set you up with Mr Y. So he wanted me
to find out what you felt about this fellow!
Me : *Almost faint* Hahaha....oh ok.....(just I suspected!).....He's okay...we din
talk much...but he seems decent. A bit quiet, but mebbe coz he doesn't know
me enough.....I am rather open to any help! Hahaha.....
Mdm T: Hmm....ok......I think he's a good catch!!!

At this point, I was feeling rather incredulous! What was my boss thinking?!? Should I get angry, that he thought I needed his help in my love life; or should I be grateful for him being kind and wanting me to be happily married?!? ...I dunno.....its rather strange....especially when I see myself as a rather private person who does not talk about these things with others easily, especially when my boss is from the opposite gender!!!!

Anyway, we shall see what happens...am still waiting for a text/ phone call from Mr Y....if he is interested...and I'm praying that he is a Christian already......who know, God's ways are higher than mine! ;)